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I think there always be people like you describe. It was a common problem in Codemasters ToCa/DTM series which had somekind of ELO rating system. Once you had a great rating there were always people that tried to punt you off so you would drop dramaticly.
As i remember we raced there mainly without collosion, as ghost cars, good old days....
iRacing's damage is very good as you see parts on crumple and not instantly bend, I feel a video coming on, after the league obviously.
lack of features that are really needed for running ovals
You could race with us roadies until they arrive
Ricky