Had a watch through of this tonight while I was working on a couple other things. I enjoy the 'stream of consciousness' type videos; insight into the thought process is what makes a solid tutorial.I went ahead and made a video about it, but it's not a tutorial; it's more of a random ramble through my thoughts of how I would do it.
I think the biggest difference on my end is working without LIDAR, so I can rely on shrinking everything down to the say base data to ensure it's "close enough" before the manual stitching.
That being said, I really like your solidified-road-as-boolean-tool method, with the geo nodes for connecting edge verts. I'm trying something on my end now to see if I can accomplish what I'm looking for