Sorry to hear that, I believe Singman will post his point of view
Hate to see this sort of thing for both sides.
Perhaps an effort for resolution can be from both parties.
I've found these few rules good to follow when buying or selling some stuff
as a buyer
- use paypal, (not sending money to friend option!), then it is possible to use their claim system
- get the details of condition of item in written, at least in forum's threads with pictures
- make pictures of closed delivered parcel and then opened one
as seller
- take a few minutes to photograph it before going into the box and again after it has been boxed up but not sealed. This will give you pretty good evidence for the shipping company that it was damaged by them and it will also enable the buyer to know that the seller did his/her part to protect the item.
- insure the package
- use a signing delivery