Unfortunately using low end wheels like we are you have to find a compromise. We simply cant get as much weight feel in the wheel as you would in a real car without over saturating the forces and loosing a lot of the feel as to what the tyres are doing. That's a simple fact of cheap hardware I'm afraid
It's personal choice of course, but I've always gone for detailed feel over weight in sims, and it's served me well
Often people find my settings a little light but i think if you stick with it you'll soon get used to it. Without wanting to sound like I'm blowing my own trumpet, I'm pretty fast in all sims, and i put a lot of that down to the fact that i have my FFB set up so that i can feel exactly what the car is doing at all times. You cant drive on the limit if you cant feel your tyres!
Were all different though. Just experiment and dial in something you're comfortable with.... or buy a £400+ wheel